The queen nevertheless is only human. They are unique in their own right, and such is God's creation. They won't be same from one to another, even if they are twins. Their motherly instinct is different. They raised up their kids in their own way. To sum it up, they are only human, uniquely created to give different facade and colors to the world. Let see what we have here...
What do you call mothers who are dumping babies at dumping ground, or at the step of the mosque, or in drainage system at the back alley. For the past few months, there are no weeks passed without 'dumping baby' news. Mom of the girl whose boyfriend beat the girl to death by stomping on her head repeatedly is clearly not the normal mom. Mom who let her new husband battered her own child is definitely heartless. But they are still moms..
There are many moms who love their offsprings without boundaries, beyond law of the world and law of God. Mom of Aminurrasyid only wants the police who killed him be penalized (Al-fatihah to him, and my pity to the policeman). Never mind if the 15 year old licence-less who is driving sister's car for a teh tarik at 12am on school night, hit somebody's car at around 2 am, ran and take over patrol car, then keep on speeding even when the patrol car send in the bullet (base on his friend's account). Mom of Benjy keep on crying for justice. Like the police have no pity for her, a cancer-stricken mother. And she is still crying shame over a petty punishment of 2 years in rehab. Never mind if there is prima facie that he is into drug business. Mom of the boy who killed both his grands, father and sibling in Negeri Sembilan will always love him, and thought that he didn't do it on purpose. Mom of Halimatun who ran with boyfriend to Langkawi loses 20kg only in a month after she's out of her sight (thank God she's now back).
Those are true stories of mother's love and hate. Not all 'love' are good 'love', though all 'hate' is bad 'hate'. All I'm saying is even normal mothers are far from perfect (including me of course). In a true story that I have collected in my life's journey, the normal moms flawed too. Some of them are too fierce, that children they raised is over aggressive. Some are too 'disciplinarian' and used forces like rotan or other physical violent on their children - they end-up bringing-up human who are either too aggressive or too nice to their own children. Some of them are too soft, that they grown up difficult and over-spoilt kids to deal with. Some of them are too materialistic, that all the children need pay for all their expenses. Some of them have clear favoritism to their selected kids and want everbody else in the family bow to the favorite ones. Some of them preserve a long term attitude issues that never grown out of them, while the kids is all grown ups and became learnt... I love to see the program called 'Nanny 911' at NTV7 on Monday 830pm - how the nanny come to rescue one problematic family and try to solve issues of raising up children in the family. The main reason of the family chaotic is always about mom and dad who are either too afraid or too fierce of their children. Mom is a real big word and to be a smart one you have to continue learning and praying to Allah that the generation you raised is the best in world and after....
This note is for me and for you moms out there..let us be the Queen of Hearts. Happy Mother's Day Y'all..
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